Its really a topic to discuss concerning the rising arguments on this particular topic, this has turned to a debate topic or rather the stuff to discuss when guys meet and sit t talk and have a little chat.

I was with some guys when a particular guy was mocked that he always dates a lady that is older than him, that he never goes for his size, and it was indeed a thing to laugh about giving that it was really true and there was no messing around in it.

Though the guy was okay with and did not react negatively to the jibe, the question still stands up on till this moment. IS DATING SOMEONE OLDER THAN YOU WRONG?

Some guys are often fond with having a non-casual relationship with ladies or rather women. Most guys do think that, that is where the real thing is, and some guys do not fancy dating someone younger or at the same age as they are. It is purely a sole pinion and principle.

We all know that with love anything is possible, and in it there is  no discrimination, for if a black is in love with a white or the other way round, that they will go to any extent to see that their will is fulfilled.

But which ever way it goes, the question still stands.

Some people might judge on respect, the youngest among the couple is said to be disrespectful to the older, and also it is viewed that the older one will a kinda feel cheap and small.
But the question is, Does it really matter? for when the relationship is built on true love they both will definitely respect themselves and will never belittle each other.

The most challenging part of this kind of relationships is in the early stages of the relationship, whereby the lady (should she be the oldest) always wants to drive and steer the relationship to the direction she wants, and should the guy want to make a decision, she comes up with the age stuff and gets the guy quiet.

The lady might want to keep the relationship on a low key, that is if she is the kind that is shy. She would not want her friends to know that she is dating someone younger than her. And she might avoid the guy sometimes when around friends.

But it is never really bad to date a lady older than you, for if true love exists between you two, then the relationship will damn be better than the relationships you think are right.

These is a topic which everyone has a different opinion, for we have different minds.

 After so many individual views and contribution, the summary to come along is, it is left for you to decide what suits you best and if it seems bad or good to you then it is your call to make.

Since after the long anticipated handover and swearing in into office, everything has just been well with the APC, the nation has, after all, witnessed the change in power, power has indeed changed hands and this time it is not the PDP that is in the office, it's their worst nightmare.

Buhari in his race to win the hearts of Nigerians and get as many votes as possible in order to surpass his opponent in the race, he made a truck-full of promises, ranging from what he will do and what he will stop. His fellow party men publicly said Buhari has come to eradicate poverty and not manage it a boldly said by Tinubu. But the question is, has poverty been erased? that, of course, will be a silly question because it has not yet reached a month.

Buhari did with all boldness said in a meeting in Abuja during the presidential campaign that "I will give all it takes to ensure that our girls kidnapped from chibok are rescued and reintegrated with their families."

 But after the election was over it was another talk all the way this was what he said "we do not know if the chibok girls can be rescued. Their whereabouts remain unknown, as much as i wish to, i cannot promise hat we can find hem."

Is Buhari finally here for a change, or is he here just to earn himself a name as one of Nigerians civilian presidents. He is not much different to the person he and his fellow party men claimed was incapable and corrupt, that was responsible for the terrorism and the Nigeria's economy breakdown despite Nigeria been declared Africa's largest economy during the economy forum.

That was not all of Buhari's shortcomings, in an interview with Christiane on CNN during the campaign, Buhari boasted that he would overcome Boko Haram within two months if he was elected. This was his statement "we know how they started and where the are now and we will rapidly give attention to security in the country. And I believe we will effectively deal with them in two months when we get into office."

That indeed is a speech from a General! but what has he done about Boko Haram, of cause it is too early to ask that question, but see what the man who promises to keep to his word said later on after he had been elected; "I think I am too experienced to in internal security to give two months deadline on Boko Haram. I don't think I would have made that statement, I didn't."

While Nigerians are hoping for a better regime it seems we are not even in for a positive surprise, no disrespect, the gallant soldier who was involved in coup de tats is not sure or confident in his abilities.

We have since been crying for change and rejoiced when APC won, what is the change about APC when it comprises of a mouthful PDP decamps, when its candidate has been jumping from one political party to another, Nigerians once again has been tied a blindfold and maybe on their way into a pit.

All we are saying to the great party in power is, do not give us shameful and useless excuses, what we need are actions and positive results.

Do as you have claimed and boasted!!!