Nigerian Parents Are Too Religious
Nigeria Parents, Too
Over Religious
Nigeria been
a West African country and also its giant, has vast characters in it. Even among
the parents, there are parents that (1) stand by their word, (2) controlled by
peers (3) read manuals.
Now, among
all these categories of parents, the wisest among all, if it should be said is
1. The parent that stands by own word.
2. Controlled by peers
3. Read manuals
Having said
all these, the question now is, what will make parents to be categorized like
so? Kids!!!
But the real
truth is that Nigerian parents are too religious, in the case that whatever you
do is considered canal. You are been monitored to the extent you lose it.
1. In Nigeria, the hairstyles trending are styles like Afro, Punk, Galaxy, Swagger etc. now, what concerns hairstyle and righteousness?
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| Afro |
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| Galaxy |
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| Punk |
When you
make do your hair with these styles, 90% of parents consider you wayward, the
most annoying part is that, their own children happens to be much wayward than
you are, if it’s the hairstyle that makes you wayward.
2. When you move with friends you are
been yelled at like you have killed someone.
3. What you wear is the part they are more concerned with.
In Nigeria you will see a boy of 22+ being
controlled, commanded, ordered around, scolded in public and the most surprising,
beaten. For what reason? That is the question to ask.
Wanting to
list out all of the reasons why they behave so embarrassing will make you go to
bed without studying, get what you are cooking burnt, just saying. Now, the
reason why they behave this way is because of the so called advice they get,
which has now redirected us back to the category of parents.
One other
thing a Nigeria parents are fond of is comparing their child with the neighbor’s
or comparing with the child’s friend. They do this not for any other reason but
to preach to the kid.
Another, is
that most parent gives their children time to go out and come back home.
The parents
that stand by their word, happens to get the better result, because they happen
to move by their instincts, and many happens not to get mislead too often by
their instincts.
The other
parents that hawk’s their ears, happen to get the situation in hand hotter than
it was. They try every advice they get, whereby psychologically playing with
the kid in question. When a kid is behaving in a manner you as a parent do not
welcome, the best solution to that problem rests within you both. You know your
child, if you do not know, start studying.
Those that
surf the web, patronizing book stores, should better stop and study their
child. Dictating what your child likes and dislikes is the first step to
getting the job done, knowing this, you have already getting 50% of the job
done.
This can be
said to have made most of Nigerian children disciplined, due to the childhood
training they got at their early stages.
NOTE: everything has its limit. Be careful on how you implements them.
When you psychologically overwork a kid, the kid gets mad (not like mental madness). The kid gets fed up with you and what you say. And if this happens, you have a squared job to do.
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